Its the customer (client) patient S!@#$%6D

In every enterprise, endeavor, business, movements, the end recipients benefit and welfare ought to be always at the forefront of their practice or performance. If one is a farmer for example, the consumers satifaction of the produce he makes is all that matters. So with professionals like engineers, doctors, lawyers. Its never about ‘us’- but THEM rather.

For more insight on this principle, I came across a nice article- from the medical field that is. And it triggers the importance of giving credit where its due – to those we offer our service or expertise to.

Except from a doctor writer on one leading magazine wrote and I quote:

“Doctor, thank you po for your support.” Those words had come from a senior pediatric resident who had just presented a case that turned out to be a diagnostic dilemma. My reply, “You are most welcome. That was the least I could do to let everyone know that the course of action taken was my decision and not yours. After all, I am the captain of the ship and the reason that the case was presented was because I did not have the answers. We needed the input of the team so we could do what is best for the patient and his family. In dealing with saving lives, there is no room for arrogance but plenty of space to practice humility complimented by unrelenting perseverance and deep prayer.” Before that particular day ended, I caught up with a mentor and asked what would be the best teaching strategy in going about making clinical decisions when faced with gray areas. How did he bring me up back then? He didn’t bother to mince words. “Allow them to do their homework and their best.”

Being a physician is difficult with medicine not being an exact science and riddled with complexities. What makes it more difficult is the responsibility that the job entails because we have a direct hand in saving lives. As I continue growing in this profession, I am beginning to understand and appreciate the value of constant communication as a way to let the patient know that we care more than they could ever imagine. Moreover, in the journey to self-knowledge, I have seen the importance of acknowledging my own limitations and sharing uncertainties with both the patient and his family. Letting them in on your thought processes and plan of action goes a long way in any doctor-patient relationship. Such open discussions and honesty lead to a better understanding of what the patient and the family are facing and build that needed element of trust. Never ever think that you’re the only one with solutions. Be humble enough to admit that you would be in need of help. Though you may be good, someone will always come along who will be better than you or have more experience even if you are in the same field. To seek another’s consult is never a sign of incapability, would never hurt, and comes at no cost.

A good physician is one who knows his limitations. As the attending physician, always remember to include others in the equation, as it is never about you in the first place. Focus on the only one who matters, the patient.

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The day before

Believe it or not, I’m down with flu like symptoms a day before my birthday! Never happened before.

But I guess the changing weather pattern did the better of me this time round.

After the manila trip, we were spent. And so the weekend after, I still have to play a round as per my commitment to the beginners. Little did I know this, coupled with fatigue has taken its toll on my body!

I’m still grateful to the Lord for giving me 49years of life here on earth. The next decade or so will be “giving back”. Then again what can I give besides time and talent? Teaching?

9 Habits to change a life

  1. Habit 1 – wake up at 5AM (workout, plan the day, work on biz)
  2. Habit 2 – spend 30 minutes walking with nature
  3. Habit 3 – write your thoughts before going to bed (goals, grateful, negative)
  4. Habit 4 – get a good sleep pattern
  5. Habit 5 – read 20 pages of a book a day
  6. Habit 6 – meditate for 10 minutes (be silent)
  7. Habit 7 – drink water after every meal
  8. Habit 8 – spend 1 hour exercising
  9. Habit 9 – learn an online skill 30 minutes a day (content, coding, copywriting, digital marketing)

Golf Gear March 2023

OK what’s going on in my golf these days?

First, my vlog has seen a regular upload of our adventure golf with friends. The zany bunch has given us a glimpse of what post corporate life would look like!

Second, my score. These days im shooting mid 85s on a good day and high 90s on a so so day. With my 2023 goal to try and hit single handicap, I need to get my swing in order! Meaning I can’t afford to score high 90s if I want to hit my target!

Third, my gear has now been increased to include the following:

  1. New Driver (Taylor made Sim Max – meant for Paolo and bought at 499 dollars in 2022)
  2. New Titliest 915 driver – bought for myself as I experiment on getting long drives off the tee. This is bought early 2023.
  3. Completed my Titliest woods selection by getting a used 5 wood! Also bought in 2022.
  4. Completed my Titliest irons with 4 iron and 4 deg C. This is hoped to bring me out of trouble (4 iron on tight lies) and 46 to compensate for longer than usual approach shots. This was a March 2023 purchase!
  5. My blade Mizuno MP33 has been endorsed to wifey since her swing speed matches this.
  6. My Taylor Made M6 driver bought 2nd hand is also going to my bag. But with my outside in swing plane, Im finding it hard to keep straight!

Overall, a Mizuno bag to fit inside my car would complete the package! Also, these days Im using a Gutty ball, soft but the ball flight is just awesome to watch!

MH370

Its been almost 9 years to the day.

And like most mysteries or unsolved events, hollywood came to the rescue and made a Netflix series about the the missing airline.
Webster defines mystery as a “something that is difficult or impossible to understand or explain.’

By all accounts, even with today’s technology, advanced communications systems, tracking capability and high tech gadgets, the plane literally vanished without a trace!

A mystery. An enigma? Or simply an intentional act of a man that showed as a sign of protest. whatever it is, we may never know since the wreckage (at least clear evidence, was not found in totality, or at least crucial pieces of it.

Birthdays and wellness

I caught the bug 2 days before my Bday.

We dont appreciate what we have (wellness and health) until its too late.

Yes, somehow was a truth and a realization plaguing my recent bout with flu.

Day 1 started nonchalantly on a monday morning. I felt some strange coldfeet starting my week. Soon after, the sore throat I felt the prior day turned to coughing. Sent a note to colleague to work it out at home. Strangely I didnt sleep well the prior night. And so I knew something was off in my body.

Day 2 meant the bug has gotten a hold on my body. Rushed to see our doctor. Gave me the usual flu remedies-paracetamol, cough pills, lozenges and tablets. Just slept all throughout the day!

Day 3 – my birthday! Thought to myself how can I’m sick on my birthday! Then again, it’s my youngest son to fall victim of this nasty bug. Send him to school with some coughing, soon at lunch he complained of dizziness and by afternoon, he’s feverish. Celebrated my birthday in the evening. Felt a tinge of pity of myself. Thank God for FB greetings, friends and acquaintances made me alive!

Day 4, it’s my sons turn to get the bug! So we Sent him to see the doctor. Good thing he is very familiar with our family specialist. You see Dr Simon Ng has been Rorys doctor since he was born. A true professional and specialist, he’s skilled diagnosis and competent analysis of the situation afforded us with legit opinion of a boys illness. Kudos to our doctor! For me, slowly I’m getting back my strength.

Back to office. Still not 100% so let’s see how the day goes.